It’s the most frequent practical question I hear in college/singles ministry. It has the ability to tie people in knots like no other.
I’ve said this before, but the most helpful resource I’m aware of on sorting through these conundrums is Kevin DeYoung’s Just Do Something. DeYoung walks through the maze and helps the reader discern what kinds of questions to ask and when you’re verging on the unhelpful extremes of spiritual subjectivism.
Here is a very short interview with Kevin DeYoung on the issue of finding the right spouse.
